FEAR OF RIGHT OR WRONG

Do I am doing the correct thing or not? 

                             Do I am going to get the right result or not?

Do this is the right and perfect time for the thing that on which I am working on?

             Why to Depressed before knowing the final outcome?

What all these things are - It is nothing else a small four letter word "FEAR".... I guess it is being one of the most important member of all life. Fear is something that make us understand sometimes that what and how to manage some really important things. Sometimes, it really make us think that do we are working correctly....

........ It is nothing but sometimes we can simply call it as some chemical imbalance in our brain... that make us feel that the thing is not possible or thing is incorrect...

This is not the truth... we have to think positively... that every thing on which we are working on might having both the sides - it might be right (correct) or might be wrong. So, why to take tension in advance and why to allow this four letter word "FEAR" to win and also why to give it a special place in our brain and heart.... NO WE DO NOT ALLOW SUCH THING IN OUR LIFE.... SORRY NOT AT ALL ALLOWED!!!

.... It happens often that we are not able to take the decision but do because of that do we feel we are loosing something... the ANSWER is a big "NO" ..... we can't allow FEAR to win in any condition....

.... We have to think only one thing... that work as best as we can... and rest leave on the power who is operating our lives.... and we have to make ourselves strong that much... that from  our side we are putting the right effort at the right time with the required power....

LIVE LIFE HAPPILY.... and DO NOT THINK OF FEAR THAT MUCH SO THAT IT MIGHT RESULT IN GIVING NEGATIVE EFFECTS ONE DAY...

Right Attempt : Need to change ATTitUDE

Right or Wrong : who the one is having the Power to decide..... NO one.......

People Wonders, the condition might change in future... yes it will change for sure.. but only if you work Hard very very Hard.... But, if still after doing the Hard Work... The thing not work out for you... than.... any solutions... think... do we left with any SOlution....

I guess YEs or nO, you do not know.. You still have an ATTItude that you will be A WiNNer one DAy...

But wheN.... may be next week, NEXT MONTH or may be somewhere IN the NEAR FutuRE... you will the one...

What the need is of all ABOUT : A Right ATtituDE... and yes if you have the one.... you will win... definately you will be a WINNer one day.... Even if... you know the problem is of very much higH level.... Do not feel bad that gOD had choosen you earlier for the liFE Pattern or problem you say...

........ Just keep a thing in mind that IF you have to ChallEnge everyONE you have to do that.... Do not think that it is IMPossible.... yoU have to change your ATTItude that IT is possible.... it is for sure possiBLE... and you have to make it possIBLE any how....

BEST IS TO BUILD UP THE RIGHT ATTITUDE ALL THE TIME.... IF YOU HAVE... YOU ARE THE ONE WHO IS ALREADY ALMOST IN THE FIRST HALF OF RACE... YOU NEVER KNOW YOU ARE THE WINNER NEXT TIME..

Angel of JOy - Chances to get the next one?

Before putting up something on my Blog..... I want to ask every reader to just close there eyes and think of only for a one single moment of life....

Would you feel that a single moment of JOy is enough to fight against all the eVIL moments in one's life.....

Now coming back to the BLog... After a long run of odd events in one's life.. It would be not always sad or very bad moments... it is a mixture of both i.e. sad, very sad, little happyness....etc.

A person think that he had fight a lot against the evils moment... now what.... Do this is for what I had taken birth or Do this is what the God had gifted me this life.......

........... Still thinking....... keep on thinking continuously for two-three days regularly forgetting about every other moment in life for that particular time... finally he think if GOd really wants to make me feel THAT IF i WANT haPPYness, i HAVE TO fight against every Evil.... I have to... I will not agree in the terms of God.... to remain the same as always.......

I am having one life.... one single life......... but really is it worth it if even I again give it an another chance to succeed....... may be I will be the Winner......... may be the Name on the next ANGEL of JOY is of mine ......


Finally making a decision and coming on Conclusion that I would challenge goD.....

..... I know I have to start again from "level A" but I will.... and will build all the thing from the scratch again till all the level till I get succeeded or the thing for which I am made for....

"It is always better NEVER SAY NO TO TRY.... ATLEAST GIVE LIFE A ONE MORE CHANCE, and WHO KNOWS NOW THIS IS YOUR TURN TO GET SUCCEED"

Keep the thinking always in mind........ may be it might takes time to get such thinking if you are getting the failure.... but if you made it one day....may be in a couple of days or a week or two, you will FOR sure ABLE TO INCREASE YOUR LEVEL OF CONFIDENCE, ABLE TO MOTIVATE YOURSELF..... TRUST ME YOU ARE HALF A WINNER ALREADY....

SO KEEP ON TRYING, IF SUCH THINGS COME IN YOUR LIFE.... TALK TO ALL THOSE WHO YOU REALLY FEEL THAT WILL HELP YOU IN BUILDING UP YOUR CONFIDENCE, WILL ABLE TO MOTIVATE YOU.... THEY WOULD BE YOUR FAMILY, YOUR ADMIRER, ANYONE....

SO KEEP WORKING HARD.... MAY BE THE LIFE GIVE YOU A BETTER HALF FOR THE REST OF LIFE......

MAY BE THE NEXT ANGEL OF jOY IS FOR YOU.....

Past to the Future - Still Unclear...

I still remember the life I had left behind.......... sometimes think of my decision that is it really what I want from life.........

I never ever think such kind of thing happens to me, but, I do not know what GOd is looking up to give me or what his intention is.... I am always a simply guy, soft spoken.... never ever think of even doing any bad thing..... Never SMOke, No drinking......... but still why goD chosen me for all these things....

Do it means that I am the one who is God thinking to hurt so much that after this I never take any other decision of my life mineself........

I just think where all those days gone........ I too be happy and even I come here to be happy.... but now the condition is such that I am not having any option yet.......

The life give me a Big QUEstion mark........... that what next........


People say that it will get over soon. but do is it really get over........ Just hope and nothing else I can do.......

Question for a GOd...

God.... people say god exist... I too agree there must be some power that holds all human being together... to make them live in this world....

But having a Question for a GOd.....

that... do the GOD is happy to see its children... if NO then why GOD creates so much problem.... in one's life... why not atleast it allow it children to live in the normal state... ya I agree that it is very important to have a happier state as well as sad state but it would not be like that....

.........if it is happier state, GOD make the person so much happy..... that he or she feels that they are in HEAVEN....

but... when it is a sad state, GOd makes the person realize that the MIStake was being planned by GOd at some back stage of his or her life..........



it simply means it is all on GOd's hand that what he want.....

I am just having a single request please.......... if you want to make the people happy, make him happy only till at that limit, such that he can able to digest it....


......... and make him cry only if he or she can able to bear it..... it is not like that a person resistance power is of 50% and god is gifting him the CRy state with 80% or more.... please stop doing such things........

we are your children, don't make us feel like that......

I know struggle is very much important in one's life...... but even as per mine experience struggling a lot do not make the person feel that it is really worth it doing that much of that......

SO, please make this world feel that it is really there HOME.... that you had designed for them before the time even when they had born or you are planning to them to take a first BREATHE of life.......

Suppose there is a family of 5 with having a son and a daughter and you taken the family eldest children back...... then is it really good........ i think so NO.........

I know "GOD is great........ GOd is really very very great" but "please do not add such kind of different flavours with a such higher proportion in one's life"......

Many ROADs.... no IDEA.. where to go????

"Many ROADS" why there are so many roads.... not a single one.....
"NO Idea"... where do the person gets the idea if there is no idea which road to choose....

One day a student studying in the Junior School think that he wants to make a career as a Doctor...

Years passed.... At the time he had to made a decision what to choose... which stream - would it be Science, Commerce or Arts... No idea... where to go.....

After thinking a lot... the decision taken by him, he had choosen Science as a Career option...

Studying two years during the High School... he had worked day and night and even score marks in 90's, but at the end, when it comes to get admission in the medical school, he just get a one single thing "NO SEATS" so here he QUITS his dream.... of becoming a DOCTOR...

So with this he had made a choice... this time he had taken CA - Charter Accountancy (Commerce) thinking that he can make it, but after working for two years in the field... later he realize that it is not possible for him to take a lot of pressure... ARTICLESHIP, Morning Coaching Class...... again he get disappointment.... he feels like that this is not what he wants to do in life....

Now, he is again get struck choosing his career option..... NO idea...... looking over the internet, discussing with people made him crazy... that what to do....

Atlast he feel that it would be better if he work somewhere so as he will be able to make atleast that much amount of money so that he can survive.... But no DEGree... where he can get a JOB....

So he join the Call CENTRE....

Moral of the story - Having a lot of option is good, but when it comes to its effect it result as the one above mentioned case....

As a person never feel like at the end... that he had started his career trip from being a DOctor and at last end up at working in the CALL centre....

So, it would be better instead of opening of so many roads.... make them aware first which road is really having a lot to offer....

LIfe - What it ACTUALLY means??

A small four letter word but means a lot to everyone..... But I have a question at very first point... Do the word "life" really having any meaning...

The answer is still not clear...

People feel that it is a God Gift but if it is really a GOD gift.... then why GOD take it in back in the form of one recent example.... The HAITI Earthquake.... Do it means that GOD do not love all of those people who died in the earthquake... Whats the mistake of all those people... The answer is they do not having any mistake but only there life expiration number comes...... so GOD take all those lives back to him....


This is one example..... there are 100's of other more example tooo....

Some people usually say it like that - " ONE LIFE, LIVE IT HAPPILY, DO WHATEVER YOU WANT" But do again this statement is correct.... Again a BIG NO.

Reason only one, when anyone feel that he or she can do something good for others, then at the same time four more people stand as a competitor in front of them... I know competition is important but why go for a RACE.... Why always be in a running mode... Why it is not like that....

To have Patience in mind and heart... and try to think what you gain from that particular moment of life.... because as the life is not a RACE.... try to understand how you can help others.... how to support others but not in the way if we always compete...

Every person is having some special ability... but because of over such HIGH BURDEN life.... a person not able to understand what his ability most probably till his/her mid 20's (as in most of the case, it usually happens) so... I just want to say... that... TRY to live LIFE the fullest, do competition but only till the time it would be useful for the nature; not like it is against the NATURE....

Hope I am able to reflect some of mine point in mine Heart to everyone who will read it ....